“Girls like Men Who Are Aggressive”
Porn has become the leading sex educator for young people around the world.
Many young people, in general, are saying that they turn to porn to teach them what sex should be like.[1]
Porn is grooming young women, especially, to accept violent sexual behavior. [2] Sexual and physical violence is found in 1 in 8 porn titles on mainstream porn sites, according to The British Journal of Criminology (2021). [3]
Young teen girls are wondering if they have to have “porn star sex” to make their boyfriends happy. They’re confused, scared, and questioning their self-worth.
Recently, many women have reported feeling scared during sex. [4] Or, like the author of a new book, Rough, reports, younger women frequently fail to recognize sexual abuse. They don’t stand up for themselves in their sexual relationships.
Sex should be treated as a beautiful gift we give and receive, not as a tool of control or a weapon of violence. And no, women do not like being treated with violence! There's a growing movement of women that want to improve upon and enjoy sex as much as men. [5]
You might feel worn down, tired and hopeless because the lies of porn have told you there is no way out. You might feel like you are so far gone because you’ve tried so many times to end your relationship with porn without success. Or, perhaps you love someone stuck in an endless cycle of indulgence and regret.
[1]https://www.culturereframed.org/porn-is-sex-ed-for-many-kids/
[2] https://metro.co.uk/2022/01/23/i-felt-like-i-couldnt-say-no-the-truth-about-kids-and-porn-15956276/
[4] https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/06/how-porn-affecting-choking-during-sex/592375/
[5] https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/books-2/the-good-girls-guide-to-great-sex/